Be realistic.
If you plan a religious ceremony that calls for possible kneeling, you may want to opt out of the form fitting / mermaid dresses.

Popular with guests.
It is not written in stone that your wedding ceremony has to take place between ten and two. Think about having an evening/night wedding by doing the photos first and therefore not making your guests wait around for the shin dig to re-start between the ceremony and dinner.

Themed Weddings
Have a themed wedding –a specific time period, a country or sports team that the two of you love. Or even a costume theme! (Be aware that most guests will not want to dress up). Think about how much fun and interesting it would be to plan the event around the theme of your choice. Some of the most popular themes are winter, tropical, and garden.

Your close connections.
To include more people in the ceremony have them read a poem or prayer or sing a song at the ceremony.

A special moment for Mom.
If you and your mom are very close, think about asking her to be your “matron” of honor, or have both parents walk you down the aisle. Just don’t leave out Mom.

Mistakes that turn into fond memories.
Keep in mind that things will not go completely according to plan. That is not necessarily a bad thing. It gives the entire ceremony “personality” and will richen what will inevitably become the prologue to the story of your lifetime.

Two by Two
No one said your bridesmaids and groomsmen have to match in height/and or age.   Feel free to mix and match bridesmaids and groomsmen as you think they would feel most comfortable, and even feel free to throw in a loaner. 

Nice extra.
During the ceremony, recognize important people by giving them flowers.

Personal story.
Ask the officiator to work in a story about your meeting or courtship into the ceremony.

Fun and furry. Can’t find a ring bearer? Use the family pet!

In the round. At the ceremony, arrange the chairs so that everyone surrounds you.